08/02/2011
As any of us with common sense know it is an awesome responsibility assuming the care of a dog(s). Unfortunately all to often parents are pursuaded to get a dog after the child/children promise that they will take care of him; that may last a week and then it falls back to the parents. I grew up with dogs, and my parents fed them, and who knows who cleaned up their poop(trust me it wasn't me).
In my adult years we had two dogs for thirteen years, and their loss was great; so great we decided never again, and that lasted maybe a year. Hearing Toby's turmoil of being locked in a cage at least 14 hours a day broke my heart, so I had to set him free, by asking his owner to allow me to take him, after discussing it with my family. There was resistance at first from my family as I was reminded of the sacrifices but I didn't listen, so we took him in. He is remarkable; no matter how bad a day at work you've had you come home he and jumps on you, tail wagging, his running through the house as if saying come in, we missed you terribly.
As with most things, with the joy, there is sacrifice. Whatever we do he is a top consideration. When we travel, we have to go to dog friendly places and motels, or places that allow for him to be day boarded, but for short periods; he has separation anxiety.
He is, as they are for so many others, a large part of our lives and brings a great deal of joy, but please remember before you bring a dog into your lives consider the sacrifices and whether you are willing to make them before you bring one home.
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